Hey, hey, hey, everyone.

Hoping everyone is good.

Hoping everyone is great.

Hoping that you're feeling good from last Wednesday to this Wednesday.

You know, for this episode, I wanted to revisit something that we talked about, but I want to,

I want to go in it a little bit deeper.

And it is the problem that comes with asserting your boundaries and the other person not understanding why that boundary exists.

And many times what happens is that we lose people based on us asserting a boundary or it is because you haven't given them reasonable explanation as to why that boundary is there in the first place.

It can get deep.

Ties can sever.

Or arguments may ensue.

Because when a person doesn't get the answers that they won't in the appointed time or in reasonable explanation,

they'll continue to badger the person who does not give them what they won't.

You know, when two people, when two people are deeply passionate about their beliefs about how they live, what they value,

or what they've learned to protect, the conversation can quickly become uncomfortable,

especially when one person has a clear boundary and the other does not understand why that

boundary even exists. And see, this discomfort doesn't always come from any kind of hostility.

It often, it comes from a genuine desire to understand because people ask questions for clarity.

They just want their context. They want some kind of logic. They even want

reasons. But see, the problem exists when one person feels that additional, you know,

explanation isn't actually necessary or it isn't safe or it simply just isn't available. And the

other person experiences that lack of explanation that can be felt like resistance or avoidance

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