So your father, you're married, right?

Yeah.

Yeah, okay.

What does it take to be a good husband?

A lot of things. I think to become to be a good husband takes real real vulnerability and a lot of communication.

I think that it takes a lot of understanding.

And I would say this for a good husband or a good wife.

I think they're interchangeable.

I don't think there's much that a woman could do that a man doesn't do in a marriage.

I mean, both of it is universal truce for both. For any relationship.

Yeah.

Being willing to have real, real hard conversations. Most people are not ready for that.

Most people can't handle that.

And then being willing in back to openly communicate vulnerability.

And then I'll go back to the first thing I said and then understanding.

When you have to sit down with somebody and say,

hey, the way that you throw your clothes all over the place

drives me fucking bonkers, how can we fix this? Without going to level 10, I offended you, I

pissed you off. We're fighting. But having real open and vulnerable conversations and then and this is the hard one and then

being willing to shut up and listen to them tell you what you need to do and go, okay, I'll swallow that, I'll digest it and then I'll fix it.

I think if two people will be willing to do that, you can solve any kind of problem or any kind of issue and then and one of my favorite people in the whole world

His name is Gordon B. Hinckley

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