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Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Borderline Personality Disorder: Regulation, Nurturance, and Compassion

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Being Well

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.82.4K Ratings

🗓️ 18 July 2022

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

One of the most important and challenging skills we can develop is learning to regulate our strong emotions. While it’s very natural to have fluctuations in how we feel about others and ourselves, for some people these ups and downs are particularly intense. At clinical levels, this is known as Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). BPD is characterized by a pattern of instability in a person’s emotions, moods, behavior, self-image, and relationships. BPD is fairly common, and it's even more common for "borderline-y tendencies" to show up in our lives. On this episode of Being Well, Dr. Rick and Forrest Hanson explore what to do when these tendencies show up, how to cultivate a healthy balance of sensitivity and tolerance to distress, regulating and nurturing ourselves, and how to navigate relationships with others when they exhibit borderline tendencies.

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, welcome to Being Well, I'm Forrest Hanson.

0:10.6

If you're new to the podcast, thanks for joining us today.

0:13.6

And if you've listened before, welcome back.

0:16.2

One of the most important skills we can develop in life is learning how to relate to our strong

0:21.1

thoughts, feelings, and emotions, accepting them, experiencing them authentically, and

0:26.2

then also learning how to regulate them.

0:29.5

And we're all going to have times when those feelings are particularly strong, and maybe

0:33.8

even a bit harder to manage than normal.

0:37.2

It's very common to have these natural fluctuations in how we feel about others or ourselves,

0:43.1

but some people struggle with this more than others.

0:46.0

Clinically significant form of this is known as borderline personality disorder or BPD,

0:51.6

which is characterized by a real pattern of instability in a person's emotions, moods,

0:57.5

behavior, even their self-image, and their relationships.

1:01.8

BPD is actually fairly common, and even more common are very normal challenges with

1:07.8

emotional sensitivity, stability, and regulation.

1:11.8

So today we're going to be diving into what borderline tendencies are, and what we can

1:16.2

do about them.

1:17.8

To help us do that, I'm joined as usual by Dr. Rick Hansen, Rikaze, clinical psychologist,

1:22.5

best-selling author, and he's also my dad.

1:25.0

So dad, how are you doing today?

1:26.4

I'm doing great for us, and extremely happy that we're going to be talking about this

1:30.9

subject.

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