Borderline Abuse (Chapters 7-9)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 24 April 2024
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00:00 Chapter 7 - Comparing and contrasting Love is Blind couples
50:12 Chapter 8 - Subtle parts of abuse
1:25:27 Chapter 9 - Jealousy
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April 24, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Deservant Listeners, so this is part 7 in my series on this particular fight between Jimmy and Chelsea. |
| 0:08.6 | And in this final video, after having watched this whole fight last night and editing it this morning, I'm now going to compare and contrast the different fights and how they progressed between Nick and Danielle and Chelsea and Jimmy. |
| 0:26.9 | I want to be clear, this isn't to ridicule anybody, this is just speculation based on an edited show, but the reason why I want to do this is because I'm very passionate about this topic. |
| 0:39.6 | It branches off into a lot of other areas, not just preoccupied attachments or borderline personality, but it really is at the core of my model of understanding attachment |
| 0:52.5 | disruption, you know, attachment reactivity, |
| 0:56.1 | relational trauma, defense mechanisms, |
| 0:58.4 | schemas, personality disorders, |
| 1:01.2 | communication, everything stems from what I'm talking about here. |
| 1:07.4 | And I have deep compassion for all four of these individuals. I've actually talked with Nick on and off of the |
| 1:17.0 | microphone and care deeply about him. I don't know Danielle or Chelsea or Jimmy personally at this point, but I deeply |
| 1:26.4 | deeply care about them as human beings. There's a lot of vulnerability. There's a lot for |
| 1:30.9 | me to feel just deep compassion for you know there are things that people might say that |
| 1:37.8 | Some of these folks are doing that is unfair, but people don't do these things because they want to be jerk faces. |
| 1:45.0 | There's so much distress and so much pain that they have |
| 1:51.0 | reactivity that's normal. |
| 1:52.0 | Someone runs over your leg. have reactivity that's normal. |
| 1:52.6 | Someone runs over your leg and breaks it, |
| 1:56.4 | and then another person comes up to you and says, |
| 1:59.3 | hey, can you help me with the groceries? |
| 2:02.3 | You might scream at that person, right? |
| 2:05.2 | You might say, no, why are you asking me that? |
| 2:11.1 | No one would fault you for doing that. |
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