Borderline Abuse (Chapters 10-12)
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 26 April 2024
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00:00 Chapter 10 - Apologies
23:45 Chapter 11 - Desperate love
51:06 Chapter 12 - Hard lines & justifications
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April 26, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Deservo Listeners Love is Blind, season six. Let's see what happens. |
| 0:03.6 | Okay, so Jimmy and Chelsea are starting a conversation, they're both on their phones, a theme this season. For some reason I thought maybe they |
| 0:16.9 | would just be done with each other but no that that wasn't definitive. Okay so I mean it doesn't really matter what my prediction is, but it might help to |
| 0:27.6 | understand what I typically see in real life is that, you know, if both people are in love and dedicated and they don't |
| 0:39.2 | want to lose the other person, even though all that stuff happened and even though in the moment and maybe for a time one or both of them were |
| 0:47.5 | telling themselves that it was over and they hate that person and it's you know there's just no way that's going to recover. |
| 0:55.2 | That you know we all need attachments. We all want to have hope for the future so maybe that's starting to settle in and at least |
| 1:09.2 | visually she's the one approaching him right now and based on the pattern that I see with |
| 1:15.3 | this couple and in life my guess is is that she will have the tone and some words of apology and halfway taking responsibility. |
| 1:30.0 | He will stay pretty defended. eventually he'll warm up, then she will start to feel more regulated, |
| 1:39.8 | there will be a little bit more goodwill between the two because his body language is face |
| 1:44.3 | I've never I don't even seen that body language or face before he seems really just |
| 1:47.9 | like the walls are up and once the walls are down then she'll in a cut-see way like she has in the past |
| 1:58.2 | she'll start sneaking in some of the criticism like you're a bad communicator or I don't know you can't be |
| 2:07.3 | friends with women or something I don't know if she'll go that far but maybe making suggestions like I don't want to be with someone that goes out and drinks but we'll talk about later so you know and |
| 2:19.6 | He'll maybe push back on a little bit, but it's enough reason for him to believe that maybe |
| 2:27.5 | she's learned her lesson or changed her ways, but he'll be more skeptical than before because he's been here before. |
| 2:35.6 | Or they break up. Or he's a complete asshole and he reveals himself for who he truly is. |
| 2:44.0 | I don't know, you know what happens, but I guess I'm... |
| 2:48.0 | There's nothing that... there's no way that this is going to be good for either one of them unless there's a couple |
| 2:56.0 | therapists that is working with them intensely at the very least weekly to help them navigate this. Even with that for a long time they would |
| 3:05.5 | still experience a lot of the same sort of conflict. It wouldn't change right |
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