We need to name the lie that we've been believing and we need to hate it.

We need to want it out of us.

Until we hate it, until we resent it, we're never going to fight it.

We're going to let it live there.

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Well, guys, welcome back. It is week two of our book club. If you are just joining us, go back, listen to the last two

episodes. And we are reading together the lie you don't know you believe. And I'm hoping that you are

reading this with some other people because I can tell you that the thing that you're thinking about

might not be true, but you will listen way better to your friend, to your family member,

to the person that loves you, to the person that walks in life with you. You need to be processing

this with your people. Today, we are going to talk about two super important things. We read chapters

three through five. And I want to start this week with the very most important thing. It's that we

have to name the lie. We have to know what it is that we are believing. And I want to start this week with the very most important thing. It's that we have to

name the lie. We have to know what it is that we are believing. And some of you immediately, when I tell you the three lies, I am helpless, I am unlovable, you're like, I know which one I am. If you find yourself not relating to these lies, I'm going to make it super relatable for you. because maybe you think, like, I don't know which one I am, or maybe you think, I'm all of them. How do I pick one?

First of all of lies, I'm going to make it super relatable for you because maybe you think,

like, I don't know which one I am, or maybe you think, I'm all of them. How do I pick one? First of all, our team has built the coolest, simplest little quiz that you can take. And the link is in the show notes. You can go there right now. Take it. And that does help. I've watched a whole room of women, like be able to name their lie pretty instantly. So the first lie is,

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