BONUS: The Friendship Episode

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2023

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Today we're talking about one of the most important relationships of all: friendship! Julie and Yue discuss the importance of friendship, yet why it often gets deprioritized in the hierarchy of relationships. We discuss the ways we approach platonic relationships differently than romantic ones, why even our friendship needed some extra TLC, and how to keep every relationship in your life healthy and thriving. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Honey Pot: Get 25% off your first order of personal care products such as washes, wipes, pads, tampons, and probiotics: http://thehoneypot.co/summer HelloFresh: Get 16 free meals plus free shipping by going to hellofresh.com/dateable16 and use the code DATEABLE16 Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewie Schu and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:02.8	We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast. just Julie and I, and I, shooting the shit about whatever's on our mind.
0:25.4	We love doing these episodes because we winged them.
0:28.3	These are things are top of mind.
0:29.6	We talk about them when we're offline.
0:31.7	Some might as well bring them online.
0:33.2	One of the things you and I have been talking about for a while is that you know this
0:37.0	podcast is primarily focused around dating romantic relationships and love but we also discount a lot of other
0:45.8	important relationships in our lives. And I mean I know both of us feel so strongly
0:51.4	about friendship. I feel like there was a big period of my life that I actually
0:55.1	probably prioritized friendship over romantic relationships, consciously or unconsciously, don't even know.
1:01.8	But I think there's so many benefits to friendship and I
1:06.0	think sometimes I've been guilty of this before of like getting together with my
1:10.1	friends to discuss dating. And while that certainly is positive to have that support system in place, I think it goes so
1:19.5	much deeper than that.
1:21.1	And we're also focused on finding connection and the connection that's missing in our lives if we're dating and looking for a romantic partner
1:29.3	But we fail to recognize the connection that's right there already for us and I know personally
1:36.4	for me this was actually so paramount before I met my current partner because I actually put less pressure on dating because I was having that fulfillment
1:47.7	through my friendships and I didn't feel like so connection starved like I did baby in the past. Yeah I think
1:55.3	friendships provide that human connection that's so necessary to feel fulfilled and
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