Bonus: Are We Dating The Same Person?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 12 July 2023

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

So you’re dating someone new - would you want to know if someone else had intel about them before you went on a date? Or would you want to find out if anyone had dated (or was currently dating) your long-term partner? Julie and Yue debate the pros and cons of these ‘Are we dating the same person?’ groups and if they are helpful or harmful to your dating life. We discuss the concept of paying it forward to other daters, why it doesn’t always to work to skip to the end, and how to use these groups more effectively if you do choose to engage. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Honey Pot: Get 25% off your first order of personal care products such as washes, wipes, pads, tampons, and probiotics: http://thehoneypot.co/summer HelloFresh: Get 16 free meals plus free shipping by going to hellofresh.com/dateable16 and use the code DATEABLE16 Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:02.8	We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:11.0	Hello. podcast. Hello, Datable Fam.
0:16.9	So good to see you all, but not really see you.
0:19.6	So good to have you listening to us.
0:22.4	Julie, do you remember we had to do this ad for a game called Best Fiends?
0:26.0	And we thought it was called Best Friends.
0:28.0	It was just so weird.
0:29.0	It was like, I can't even describe how many times I want to say best friends but it was best
0:35.2	fiends so I almost said hello dateable fiends. Sometimes I do forget that
0:41.2	there's a bunch of people listening to this.
0:43.4	Sometimes when it's just you and I talking,
0:45.9	it doesn't fully sink in until it's out there.
0:48.4	And I'm like, oh yeah, a lot of people are listening to this.
0:51.9	Wonderful people, yes.
0:53.5	Wonderful, awesome people listening to this.
0:55.8	And every once in a while we get a DM from you or an email and it's like, whoa,
0:59.1	hello, someone's listening, great.
1:01.0	Well, okay, we know a lot of people are listening. We don't know who is listening. The other day someone asked me about this and they just assumed like we saw people's names. I was at a friend's birthday and yeah it came up and they were like oh yeah you know who's
1:16.1	listening I'm like we see numbers so we definitely know the numbers of the
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