What's up?

What's up 1122 family?

Welcome back to relate a conversation about our love lives.

I hope you joined us last week as we unpacked what it looks like to serve your spouse

through a great sex life.

It got interesting.

This week, Pastor Jobie preached on what the Bible says about fighting,

which I know applies to none of the married people watching right now, but he brought the word,

and I think everyone was fast scribbling notes. I know I was. So today may be one of the most

helpful episodes, because not only do we have Pastor Jobian and Gretchen, but we have with us here

an expert.

Rebecca, thank you so much for joining us.

So you are a Christian marriage and family therapist, so tell us what that means.

So that means that in my work with mental health, I focus in on the family relationships.

So couple relationships, parents and their children.

So I do a lot of work with the family system and I approach my work with the idea of the family system in mind. And since I'm a

Christian, I get to bring that in when appropriate to the session to help people put together

their faith with what they're experiencing and need to do differently at home.

So good. And my husband and I actually got to do our premarital counseling with you.

How lucky you are. And look how, yeah, our marriage is so great because of you.

Okay, so before we dive in, we're going to do a little icebreaker question.

And Rebecca, you'll answer on behalf of what you and your amazing husband, Sean, who's also on staff with us, what from your marriage, just for the

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