Hey, brave hearts. My name is Erin and I am in week eight of the Get Over Your X program.

I wanted to send you a little love note, Valentine, and just reach out to anybody that might be

struggling or in the middle of it or considering joining the Get Over Your X program or just need

some hope out there.

So a little bit about my breakup, I was in a relationship or got involved with a man that I work with.

And it was a very hot and cold relationship.

Some people may call it kind of toxic, but when we broke up, I was just devastated

and I was not moving on the way that I, you know, thought that I should be previous relationships.

I've done the same thing. It's taken me forever to move on. And I just really always blame myself for the breakup.

My relationship was also, sorry, my breakup was complicated further by the fact that my ex,

who I work with also cheated on me with other people at work that I work with. So I have to see

all of them all the time. And that has just been pretty hard. So I just wanted to get some

professional advice and some professional help. So I sought out and I joined the Get Over Your X

program with Dorothy and I can tell you with all the confidence in the

world that whatever you're going through now and however bad you're hurting, things will get

better. Day by day, it's not always linear, but I definitely have bad days, but I cannot recognize

the person that I was eight weeks ago. So I wrote a little

letter to Aaron from eight weeks ago and I'm going to read it. Dear sweet Aaron, I just want you to know

that you love yourself more than you ever loved him. You will always have your own back. I want you to know that you love yourself more than you ever loved him. You will always have your own back.

I want you to know that you matter and make a difference, no matter what one person says or does.

You are strong and you are courageous.

You can handle any obstacle that comes your way.

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