Bonus: Lives Less Ordinary
The Documentary Podcast
BBC
4.3 • 2.7K Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2026
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
Aged 16, coming out of an audition, budding British actor Dan Whitlam was caught up in a fight with a group of boys in London. He was stabbed twice in the back with a screwdriver. The wound pierced and collapsed his lung. The physical scars healed quickly but the mental ones took a lot longer. For years Dan battled with panic attacks and anxiety. He was plagued with worries that his lung had collapsed again, his father became his chaperone as he was afraid to walk the streets alone.
Two years later, Dan met his attacker as part of a restorative justice programme, and while he got the apology he needed the panic attacks and fear continued. What helped him was writing about that day. He told the story of the stabbing through poetry and added to it a new narrative, one that painted his attacker in a kinder light. He wanted to humanise him, make him less of a monster and show that there is more than one side to each of us. Dan has gone on to perform this poem hundreds of times and earned himself a huge following for his work as a spoken word artist and musician. He writes primarily for what he calls a lost generation – young adults who grew up in an age of social media, digital natives who are inundated with options, comparisons and aspirations. He also now writes a lot about love. Dan's poetry collection is called I Don't Want To Settle. He will be on tour in Europe and the US in November. The presenter is Jo Fidgen.
Lives Less Ordinary is a podcast from the BBC World Service that brings you the most incredible true stories from around the world. Each episode a guest shares their most dramatic, moving, personal story. Listen for unbelievable twists, mysteries uncovered, and inspiring journeys - spanning the entire human experience. Step into someone else’s life and expect the unexpected.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | BBC Sounds, Music, Radio, podcasts. |
| 0:05.6 | Hello, I'm Joe Fidgen and welcome to the documentary from the BBC World Service. |
| 0:11.4 | I host Lives Less Ordinary, the podcast featuring the most incredible true life stories from around the world. |
| 0:19.0 | And in this bonus episode, I'd like to share this story. |
| 0:24.4 | All of a sudden, I'm just swallowed whole by this beast. This beast of rage pushed back and |
| 0:30.0 | forth between its walls like a pummeling cage. They're throwing fist from the right. I'm throwing |
| 0:34.0 | fist from the left and I hit my right ear and it all suddenly goes deaf and I'm just holding my head now. Trying to reduce this cacophony of blows, occasionally |
| 0:44.5 | lashing out to get them away from me. And I feel a hard punch on my back which throws me down |
| 0:49.9 | to the ground. And my head hits the concrete floor and my nose burst, |
| 0:55.0 | but, you know, I'm none the wiser. |
| 0:58.0 | And dazed, I turn over to leave as a survivor, |
| 1:01.0 | but he stands over me holding a bloody screwdriver. |
| 1:06.0 | And we look eye contact. |
| 1:09.0 | And within those eyes, I see a flicker of sadness. |
| 1:12.2 | Like he knows what he's just done. |
| 1:23.8 | What he's just done? |
| 1:25.6 | What he's just done is stab 16-year-old Dan Whitlam in the back with a screwdriver, twice, puncturing his lung. |
| 1:33.9 | The physical wounds actually healed quite quickly. |
| 1:37.0 | The mental ones took a lot longer. |
| 1:39.9 | And it was poetry that fixed him. |
| 1:42.6 | And maybe not just him. |
| 1:44.1 | Dan started posting his poetry on social media |
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