Bonus Episode: The Two Things Anxious People Do That Makes Everything Worse
Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression
Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT | Anxiety & OCD Specialist
4.9 • 882 Ratings
🗓️ 8 May 2026
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
Summary: In this episode, I talk about two very common mistakes anxious people make that actually keep anxiety cycles going stronger: responding with urgency and treating every thought, feeling, or sensation as incredibly important. I share a personal story from volunteering at a school bake sale, where I caught myself rushing, overperforming, and reacting as if everything was high stakes, even though there was no real danger present.
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| 0:00.0 | There are two mistakes that anxious people do that makes everything worse, and I'm willing to bet that you are doing both of them. |
| 0:10.1 | The reason I wanted to record this is recently I was working at a bake sale. |
| 0:14.9 | Yes, you heard that correct. |
| 0:16.0 | I was at a bake sale, and I found myself engaging in these two mistakes mistakes and I knew it was a sign that I needed |
| 0:22.8 | to talk to you about these two things. |
| 0:27.9 | Hello, my name is Kimberly Quinlan. I'm an OCD and anxiety specialist and I am on a mission |
| 0:33.5 | to help 10 million people suffer less from anxiety. I know that's a hefty goal, but I think that |
| 0:40.2 | it's a very important one because we are suffering enough, am I right? And there are all kinds of |
| 0:45.9 | horrible advice out there on what you can do to manage anxiety. So I made it my goal to help 10 million |
| 0:53.2 | of you so that we do suffer less. |
| 0:55.8 | Anxiety is running rampant and I want us to cut back on these two mistakes that we are making myself included. |
| 1:03.5 | Okay, I'm at the bake sale. |
| 1:05.2 | All of a sudden, I'm noticing that my anxiety is rising and it is rising fast. |
| 1:10.4 | And wait a second, I'm at a bake sale. |
| 1:13.8 | I'm volunteering at a high school bake sale. |
| 1:16.9 | Why would I start to notice that I'm anxious? |
| 1:19.9 | Well, what I realized is I'm making two mistakes that you're probably making. |
| 1:23.8 | The first one was I'm acting urgently. |
| 1:26.8 | And the second was I was acting as if everything was |
| 1:30.2 | oh so important. Does that resonate with you? Because if so, you're definitely not alone. |
| 1:35.9 | These are the two mistakes that I see my clients make all the time, my students make all the time, |
| 1:41.6 | and I fell into the trap too. And so what I wanted to do in this |
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