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Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

Bonus Episode: The Two Things Anxious People Do That Makes Everything Worse

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT | Anxiety & OCD Specialist

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9882 Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2026

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Summary: In this episode, I talk about two very common mistakes anxious people make that actually keep anxiety cycles going stronger: responding with urgency and treating every thought, feeling, or sensation as incredibly important. I share a personal story from volunteering at a school bake sale, where I caught myself rushing, overperforming, and reacting as if everything was high stakes, even though there was no real danger present.

Transcript

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0:00.0

There are two mistakes that anxious people do that makes everything worse, and I'm willing to bet that you are doing both of them.

0:10.1

The reason I wanted to record this is recently I was working at a bake sale.

0:14.9

Yes, you heard that correct.

0:16.0

I was at a bake sale, and I found myself engaging in these two mistakes mistakes and I knew it was a sign that I needed

0:22.8

to talk to you about these two things.

0:27.9

Hello, my name is Kimberly Quinlan. I'm an OCD and anxiety specialist and I am on a mission

0:33.5

to help 10 million people suffer less from anxiety. I know that's a hefty goal, but I think that

0:40.2

it's a very important one because we are suffering enough, am I right? And there are all kinds of

0:45.9

horrible advice out there on what you can do to manage anxiety. So I made it my goal to help 10 million

0:53.2

of you so that we do suffer less.

0:55.8

Anxiety is running rampant and I want us to cut back on these two mistakes that we are making myself included.

1:03.5

Okay, I'm at the bake sale.

1:05.2

All of a sudden, I'm noticing that my anxiety is rising and it is rising fast.

1:10.4

And wait a second, I'm at a bake sale.

1:13.8

I'm volunteering at a high school bake sale.

1:16.9

Why would I start to notice that I'm anxious?

1:19.9

Well, what I realized is I'm making two mistakes that you're probably making.

1:23.8

The first one was I'm acting urgently.

1:26.8

And the second was I was acting as if everything was

1:30.2

oh so important. Does that resonate with you? Because if so, you're definitely not alone.

1:35.9

These are the two mistakes that I see my clients make all the time, my students make all the time,

1:41.6

and I fell into the trap too. And so what I wanted to do in this

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