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🗓️ 7 March 2025
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Gabe is back with the author of “How To Be A Grown Up” Raffi Grinberg to talk about his organization for constructive disagreement, what’s perceived as aggressive in conversations nowadays, and what it means to engage with people who disagree with us. Plus, do politicians on either side actually believe what they say in public or is it just for votes from their base?
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0:28.6 | I'm here with our Tuesday guest, which if you want to listen to the Tuesday episode, you probably should. |
0:34.2 | But anyway, Rafi, can you tell my audience who you are and what you do or remind them? |
0:39.4 | If you didn't listen to the Tuesday episode, you can go back and hear it now and then skip to this |
0:43.4 | point. So I used to teach a course called Adulting 101 at Boston College of all life skills. |
0:48.2 | I wish I had learned growing up. I currently run an organization that brings people together for |
0:52.0 | constructive disagreements. And I have my book called |
0:55.2 | How to Be a Grown Up coming out soon. Okay. So what's up with the constructive disagreements thing? |
1:00.8 | Most people just don't know how to talk to each other anymore. And I don't know if they ever did, |
1:05.1 | but I think it's increasingly becoming a problem that we see disagreements as a bad thing. |
1:10.0 | I actually think disagreements are amazing |
1:12.0 | because they're an opportunity to learn. So most people approach disagreements with this attitude |
1:16.4 | of like, I'm trying to win a debate or look smart in front of my friends, or just like convince |
1:20.0 | the other person that I'm right and they're wrong. But really, if you reframe it to, I want to |
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