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Happy Place

Bob Waldinger

Happy Place

Fearne Cotton

Society & Culture, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Personal Journals

4.615.2K Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2023

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Are you aware of the importance of relationships and human connection to your happiness? Psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, and Zen priest Robert ‘Bob’ Waldinger leads the world’s longest scientific study of happiness, and has found relationships to be crucial.


In this chat, Bob tells Fearne how much of a role genetics plays in happiness, and how much we really do have control over. They also talk about the difference between being around people and really being present with them, as well as how to start prioritising relationships over other traditional markers of success.


Bob’s book, co-authored with Marc Schulz, is called The Good Life and is out now.



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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to Happy Place. I'm Fern Cotton and this is the show that wonders if we might be looking for happiness in all the wrong places.

0:11.0

Today I'm meeting Bob Waldinger.

0:14.0

The messages are that we'll be happy if we are rich, if we're famous, if we achieve a huge amount of work and what we find in our study.

0:23.0

We had wealthy, famous, high achieving people but they weren't any more happy than the people who led regular lives including people from the poor families in Boston's inner city.

0:35.0

Those people were no less happy than the fancy Harvard families.

0:40.0

And that's what's really important that what we found was that if you want to predict who's going to be happiest, look to people's relationships.

0:49.0

A psychiatrist, psychoanalyst and Zen priest, Bob Waldinger has literally written the book on happiness.

0:56.0

Along with his colleague, fellow director of Harvard's Study of Human Development, Mark Schultz, he's written The Good Life, lessons from the world's longest scientific study of happiness.

1:08.0

This book, like I read a lot of books and this book was game-changing for me.

1:13.0

I, as you'll hear when I speak to Bob, at times put my, I guess, efforts and priorities in the wrong places when trying to seek happiness or contentment or just some sort of sense of balance.

1:26.0

I learned a lot from this book and it's really changed the way that I do things.

1:32.0

I loved hearing about all of Bob's work because instead of looking at all the things that can go wrong in life, the things we maybe need less of in order to be happy, he looks at what really makes us thrive.

1:44.0

I cannot wait for you to hear this.

2:01.0

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2:05.0

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2:11.0

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2:17.0

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2:31.0

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2:35.0

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2:44.0

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2:53.0

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