You might even believe that a penis owner, their role is to physically overpower an

injury.

They have to be as hard as possible, they have to be driving and they have to be in charge.

And so when the roles are reversed, the attention is just taken away from the penis and when

the role owner is the one doing the stimulating, that is a real act of submission for a penis

owner. Like they are submitting perhaps for the first time and that is definitely challenging

traditional masculinity and can be challenging for even most enlightened penis owners.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize

your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. To peg or not to peg. That's

the question we're going to push into today. And he asked pun intended. Pegging which typically

involves a penis owner being penetrated to the use of a strap on dildo by a vulva owner

seems to be more popular than ever. But here's the thing. More than other forms of pleasure

strap on sex challenges the way we think about roles in the bedroom. So if partners can

work through these challenges, the payoff can be incredible from stimulating the prostate

to learning to lead and dominate in the bedroom. Both can be really hot. And that's why

on today's episode, I explore the steps partners should take to responsibly have strap on sex

and how the benefits go way beyond the bedroom. Intentions with Emily for each episode, join

me in sending an intention for the show. I do it and I encourage you to do the same. So

when you're listening, what do you want to get out of this episode? How could this episode

help you? My intention for this episode is to explore how switching up these power dynamics

can allow you and your partner to be more empathetic of each other and open up new opportunities

for pleasure. Please rate and review sex with Emily wherever you listen to the show.

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