It's such a blessing to have you guys here. And today, we're going to be talking about your new book

that's out and that people are going to get blessed by. We're going to be talking about, obviously,

how to strengthen your marriage and family. One of the reasons that we struggle is that people

don't understand biblical roles. But the more we understand the roles that

God has made us to fulfill, the more joy that we have. I also think we talk to a lot of couples who

they'll come in for counseling and they'll premarital and say, hey, we're going to get married,

you know, and we'll sit there. And the first. If we were to sit down, a lot of times, even in an

evangelical world or a Christian world, it'll be answers like, well, you know, we want to have a family

together, which is good, we'll point out, there's lots of people who aren't Christians and who

even don't get married to have families. And, you know, eventually we point out to him,

like, all those things can be done. This is the old J. Adams point. All those things can be done

without being married, right? So why are you actually doing this? And then you go into the eternal

purpose, the glory of God and the metaphor of the gospel. But we always love to take them back to

Genesis chapter two and say, you know, hey, at the end of the day,

it wasn't good, God said, for man to be alone. And so there's this helper, this Ezra Koneggdo,

who's made for him. And so it's companionship, what we like to call this contract of lifetime

teammates, where you're saying, we're not going to do this alone. And so now we're going to walk an aisle in covenant to one another, to our friends and family,

but also to the living God, that we're going to be lifetime teammates are what we call best

friendship. We're going to build a best friendship and we're going to do life together. And I think

that's the element that most people miss. I'm getting married for sex. I'm getting married

to have a family. I'm getting married. But I don't understand. I'm getting married to have a family, but I don't understand. I'm getting married because the two will be stronger than the one. And what we start, we're going to finish.

One of the chapters in your book is find a church to help the home. But before that, I just want to

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