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Why Is This Happening? The Chris Hayes Podcast

Between God and Man with Daniel M. Lavery

Why Is This Happening? The Chris Hayes Podcast

MS NOW, Chris Hayes

Versant Media, Chris Hayes, Why Is This Happening?, The Chris Hayes Podcast, Versant, Government, Politics, Withpod, Society & Culture, News, Msnbc, Ms Now

4.68.9K Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

"What if you were a man, sort of?" In his new memoir, author Daniel M. Lavery remembers how, in the early days of his transition, he would say it was as if a demon ambushed him in the night, whispered this question into his ear, and then disappeared without another word. It was an immediate and instantaneous revelation, but also exceptionally vague on what was supposed to happen next. "Something That May Shock and Discredit You" (published under Daniel Mallory Ortberg - he got married!) is a sprawling collection of essays, pop culture pulls, comedic historical re-tellings, and personal reflections on Lavery's life as a transgender man. It is equal parts hilarious, poignant, weird and beautiful, jumping from the Rapture to transition to Mean Girls to sobriety and then over to Marcus Aurelius, for good measure. Together they form an evocative and personal look at Lavery's own journey, and what happens when you stop letting "I dare not" wait upon "I dare". RELATED READING: Something That May Shock and Discredit You

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So there's always language of, we're on a journey, we're learning, but it was always, always,

0:04.6

always met with the same tears, the same weight, the same, this is so hard for us, we're trying

0:09.3

to understand, but they were trying to understand at 17, the same thing, they were saying they were

0:12.7

trying to understand when I was 32. And there was no change. And it took a long time to realize

0:18.7

that people can use the language of, I'm on a journey, I'm trying, I'm learning, you have to give

0:23.2

me a chance to indefinitely postpone any real work. Hello and welcome to Bises happening with me,

0:32.0

your host Chris Hayes. One of the things that I love most about this podcast is that in these times

0:38.3

we find ourselves losing our attention span, I mean, maybe I'm just speaking for myself, but it's

0:43.6

just unbelievable how much the internet has destroyed our brains, our phones have destroyed our

0:48.5

brains. There's a discipline that happens with this show that I have to read books all the time

0:52.7

for the show. And it forces me to read books, which are great, books are great. And it's been a real

0:58.8

delight to do that. And one of the things that I have enjoyed about it, and this particularly

1:02.8

pertains to today's guest, is that like great writing has an ability to transport you and

1:09.2

make you experience things or feel like you can name or see an experience that you don't have in

1:14.5

your normal subjective life. This is true of incredible fiction and also great nonfiction.

1:19.0

It allows you to kind of transcend outpast yourself in a way that like tweets don't and like

1:25.9

all of the various kinds of flotsam and jetsome of internet content that crosses our eyes every day

1:31.1

doesn't because there's a certain kind of like care and depth to great writing, to great pros,

1:36.3

to great essays that allows you to see the world in a new way and particularly to see people's

1:41.3

experiences in a new way. And that's true of the book today and the author today. The book that I

1:47.8

just read in preparation for this conversation is called something that may shock and discredit you

1:52.4

by Daniel and Lavery. And in the notes, the production notes from our great editor,

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