Today on The Girl Define Show, I am going to share some really big news with you. I have been

keeping this a secret for the past several months. I've honestly just been super hesitant to share

this part of my story. A lot of you have heard my previous episode about the three miscarriages that

I went through. I had my son, Davey Jr., and then I went through three miscarriages, and I just

have been super I guess cautious and I don't know, just hesitant about opening up about

this pregnancy that I am currently pregnant with. But I feel like it's time, and I just hope that

y'all are excited and that this story encourages you and that my journey up until this point just

gives you some hope and some laughter, maybe some tears, but yeah, let's just jump into it.

What's up y'all, it's Bethany here, and I have the great privilege of spending this episode with

you by myself because this is a personal life update slash, here's what's going on in the past

few months that I've been keeping triple top secret kind of episode with you. Before I jumped in,

I would just want you to know like this episode is 1,000% based off of the truths and the

really the, I don't know, the the scriptures that I meditated on in my new book, Not Part of the

Plan, Trusting God with the twists and turns of your story. So when I wrote Not Part of the

Plan with Kristen, life was actually in a really good place. I had not gone through any of my miscarriages.

I hadn't gone through that heartache. I had a lot of stuff I looked back on and was like,

that was really hard, but I wasn't currently in a season of hardship. And when I wrote Not Part of

the Plan, it obviously forced me to research God's goodness and his character and to meditate on

scripture and to literally write a book on what it means to trust God when life isn't what you

expected. And so I was kind of in boot camp, figuring that out myself when some, you know, hardship

struck my life and I'm not going to go into all of the details about the miscarriages because I did

share an entire episode on that and I'll link that below. This is kind of getting you up to date

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