One of the major themes we've often had in our shows here at Sex and Marys Radio is desire

differences, the higher desire, lower desire dilemma.

Yes, the common issue.

It can happen and does happen in every marriage because it creates a dynamic that is oftentimes very troublesome on how do we how do we even navigate

this because I think most of us think well you just need to come to my level of desire

and that doesn't matter which side of they continue when we on yeah higher lower and you need to

let you of yours more or you need to increase yours more.

And so in the theme of what we've been having over the last several weeks,

kind of looking at the nuances with some of them were just the mistakes,

which a lot of those are built on the premise of higher and lower.

One of them was also the last weeks was the idea of do you desire sex or do you desire sex with your spouse?

And just some of the dilemmas that come in that.

This is going to be a best of episode today with Jennifer Finlayson 5 from three years ago looking at the nuances specifically as it pertains to obligation sex or can be turned mercy sex.

And we dive into what are the dilemmas that happen here?

Because Jennifer has some great frameworks for helping navigate this conversation.

And I feel like it fits right in line with where we're going lately on the show.

So it's worth a revisit.

Let's do it.

This is something that because of how involved in deep the conversation goes, everybody gets the full show today.

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