I think that to really learn how to please your partner whatever that takes and whatever that

looks like, that once you really get there, that it'll be so satisfying and I think that

you'll forget that you might have had doubts about oral or anything else with sex.

Look into his eyes.

They're the eyes of a male obsessed by sex.

Eyes that block our sacred institutions, bedroom eyes, they call them in a fight on days.

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation

around sex.

On today's Best of Mashup, I break down the oral sex double standard.

Remember DJ Khaled?

Well, if you don't, we're going to get into it.

The evolutionary importance of oral sex, why you don't need to be intimidated by vibrators,

tips for alleviating delayed ejaculation, ways to overcome insecurities, and what to do

when you've given up on having an orgasm.

I also discuss how to address mismatch libidos in a relationship, tips for getting ready for

anal play, how feeling pressure to perform can affect the quality of your sex life and

the best tips to approach potential partners.

If you guys want more specific tips for oral, just check out our FAQ section on our website

and we have an oral FAQ that's going to lead you to podcasts and articles that will give

you the tips.

Here's just a few that we will put in the show notes.

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