Being Yourself Is Sexy with Dr. Dan Wile
Shrink For The Shy Guy
Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach
4.8 • 649 Ratings
🗓️ 24 September 2014
⏱️ 35 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
Did you learn that you had to be somehow "better" or "cooler" in order to be attractive? Most of us have been conditioned to think that just being ourselves -- especially soon after meeting someone -- will make them not like us. Instead, we think we're supposed to impress them, or somehow "win them over."
Join Dr. Aziz as he interviews Dr. Dan Wile -- one of the world's leading Couples Experts -- uncovering how attraction and outstanding realtionships are really created.
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | Coming to you from the Center for Social Confidence in Portland, Oregon, welcome to shrink for the shy guy, |
| 0:08.1 | helping men everywhere go from social anxiety to social domination. With your host, Dr. Aziz. |
| 0:18.5 | Hey, welcome to today's episode of the show. I'm Dr. Aziz. And today you're going to learn how being yourself is sexy. Oh yeah. You know, we often think that we have to do something or become something to be sexy. We have to get more in shape, more fit, more awesome. We have to be more |
| 0:38.1 | charismatic, more storytelling, more success, more better, better, better, better, better, |
| 0:44.3 | then I'll be sexy. Right now I'm kind of, meh, I'm not that way. And we think that we have |
| 0:50.2 | to really shift something deeply. And what I'm excited about today is I'm going to be interviewing |
| 0:53.8 | one of the leading couples |
| 0:55.0 | experts in the world who I think just is transformed my relationship with my wife and how I |
| 1:00.5 | approach relationships in general. |
| 1:02.5 | But he teaches something that is really powerful, which is that we spend so much time hiding |
| 1:09.0 | what's going on inside of us because we don't want to look |
| 1:12.7 | not sexy, not attractive, not compelling, not desirable. But the opposite is true by actually |
| 1:20.7 | revealing what's happening inside of us in the moment, moment to moment, you create outstanding |
| 1:27.4 | connection, you create feelings of love and chemistry |
| 1:32.1 | and joy you really know and connect with another person and ultimately it's sexier you feel more |
| 1:38.0 | turned on you feel sexier and that's something i've seen again and again and again my relationship |
| 1:41.9 | with my wife you know it's not what Cosmo says. It's not, |
| 1:45.1 | you know, the 47 tricks that make your man go crazy and it's do this with your arm and wear this |
| 1:50.2 | outfit and do this with your tongue and all of a sudden, he's amazed. Yeah, no, that doesn't work |
| 1:54.9 | that way. It's not true. It's just to sell magazine. And what's really true is not that glamorous, but it's, hey, really take the risk and be vulnerable and be yourself and be honest and reveal who you are and help that other person do the same. |
| 2:11.2 | And you will connect and it will feel amazing. |
| 2:14.4 | Not the most enticing article to sell in a magazine. |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.