Being Nice Is Good For Dating & Relationships, Right? with Amber Grubenmann
Shrink For The Shy Guy
Dr. Aziz: Social Anxiety And Confidence Expert, Author and Coach
4.8 • 649 Ratings
🗓️ 23 February 2022
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
Discover How Too Much Niceness Kills Attraction And Success In Dating
At first glance, being nice seems like a good thing when it comes to dating and relationships. But there's much more to the picture than you might think.
Join Dr. Aziz and dating coach Amber Grubenmann as they reveal the high cost of being too nice in love and relationships.
Be sure to go to draziz.com and click the Events tab to secure your spot for his upcoming Online event - Not Nice LIVE
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Shrink for the Shy Guy. |
| 0:05.0 | This is the show for you if you are sick and tired of being held back by fear, self-doubt, |
| 0:10.0 | social anxiety, shyness, anything that's stopping you from you being you. |
| 0:15.0 | I'm going to share the most powerful tools and resources that I've been discovering over the last 15 years on my |
| 0:21.9 | journey to eradicate social anxiety and instill confidence, first in myself and then in every |
| 0:28.5 | single person that I meet on my journey. You're going to learn these tools and how to apply them |
| 0:33.1 | in your life now so that you can become the most free, powerful, bold, authentic version of you. |
| 0:46.0 | Hey, welcome. Today's episode of the show. Today, we're going to be talking about |
| 0:50.6 | niceness, particularly in dating and relationships. And we have a fantastic |
| 0:55.2 | guest for that as well. And this is fitting as we get very close now to Not Nice Live, three-day |
| 1:03.7 | online immersion. Are you coming? If not, why not? It's going to be a powerful experience experience it's going to be a life-changing experience and |
| 1:12.7 | i would love to share it with you and if you've been in any interest in this whole topic of niceness |
| 1:17.0 | and think you could develop a benefit from being more bold and authentic and caring less about |
| 1:22.1 | that that people pleasing and approval seeking uh this is going to be a powerful reboot for your |
| 1:27.4 | whole nervous system, really, |
| 1:29.9 | and how you approach other people, and whether it's with fear or a rock-solid sense of confidence. |
| 1:35.4 | So come join. You can go to Dr.aziz.com. That's d-R-A-Z-I-Z.com. And under the Events tab, |
| 1:41.3 | there is a, you can click on a link and get the ticket there. |
| 1:45.8 | So, being nice in relationships is good, right? |
| 1:52.5 | I mean, isn't being a nice person, being kind, doesn't that mean you take care of the person |
| 1:57.0 | that you're with and you're considerate? |
| 1:58.3 | And, you know, if you're kind of a jerk, he's like, I don't care about you. All that matters is me. That's bad for relationships, right? |
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