Welcome to the Man Talk Show. I'm Connor Beaton. Today we're going to talk about three ways to deal

with uncertainty. Now, if you are new here to the channel, if you're watching on YouTube or if you're

tuning into the podcast for the very first time, Man Talks is not therapy, is training. This is a

training ground for men who are looking to better themselves as husbands,

as fathers, as leaders. And we provide a lot of tools and resources to do so. So today, as I said,

we're going to talk about uncertainty. One of the things that I've noticed with a lot of men is that we

can get caught in this trap of avoiding any experience, any challenge where the outcome is

uncertain. And a lot of men will get stuck ruminating in their thoughts, in conversation,

ruminating about what decision they should make when the outcome is uncertain, when they are

uncertain about how things are going to unfold. Now, why does this matter? Because we as men need to

be able to face uncertainty in our lives. If you're a parent, if you're a father,

there's going to be a tremendous amount of uncertainty. If you are a business owner,

there's a tremendous amount of uncertainty. If regardless of what career you are in,

there is going to be some level of uncertainty. And your capacity, your ability as a man to

navigate that uncertainty is going to affect, I was going to say in fact, maybe it will infect certain parts of your life. It's going to affect, I was going to say infect, maybe it will infect certain parts of your life,

it's going to affect how confident you ultimately feel. There's a direct correlation between

you being able to navigate certain levels of uncertainty in your life and the amount of confidence

that you as a man will inevitably experience and embody.

People can feel that.

Men that know how to navigate uncertainty feel more confident because they're less fixated

and focused and obsessed about the outcome.

The outcome that happens is less relevant.

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