I'm Claire Fallon and I'm Emma Gray and this is Love to See It, an obsessively detailed

recap podcast about reality dating shows like The Bachelor and other pop culture that makes us laugh, cry, and curse the patriarchy.

We can't live with these shows and we can't live without them, but we can break down every juicy moment and unpack all the weird messages these shows send us about love, sex, and dating.

Welcome to Love to See It, a podcast about the greatest Bachelor nation adjacent couple hard launch of all time. That's right. We are, of course, talking about Beckettilly and Haley Kiyoko.

We both spent all weekend watching videos of them and quietly weeping by ourselves and we'll also be talking about a handful of men who have really continued to solidify themselves as our mortal enemies on both the courtship and temptation island.

Yeah, yeah, things are getting pretty dark on the island and in the Regency era.

Later this episode we will be joined by best selling author and friend of the pod Jessica Goodman, who's new book The Counselors comes out May 31st.

We've both read it. It's super fun and we're really excited to recap temptation island with her, but first we're going to be talking gossip.

So let's get into the only thing I want to talk about ever. Basically, I'm squealing with Delaney.

So basically, Beckettilly, who was a runner up on Chris Souls, the season of the bachelor and then arrived late on Ben Higgins season to date Ben and made it to just before hometowns.

She's like a big figure in bachelor nation, although she hasn't been quite as active as the years have gone on in that specific.

So community, she had been in a relationship for four years. She had talked about it on her podcast without ever using the name or pronouns of her partner.

She called her partner 95 p, which was a reference to the fact that she said she was 95% sure that she was going to be with that person forever.

So very cute. And there was some some question for a long time about who she was dating.

And then last week there was some buzz leading up to Haley Kiyoko's new single dropping and the video, which was going to be bachelor themed in some way some sort of queer bachelor video.

And that dropped I think on Thursday night. And it was the video for a song called For the Girls and features Haley as the bachelor at dating a bunch of women.

Sort of like humorous like parody video. But the last scene is of a final mystery girl stepping out of the limo. And it's Becca and they exchange the seductive.

And it's clear that like she's the final pick. And people are like, OK, well, I guess this is them.

Probably announcing their relationship and then soon after Becca did post a very much a hard launch in in a real on Instagram, just a very beautiful mashup of four years of their relationship.

And it is the cutest video I've ever seen. They also were being very affectionate with each other, which we got some footage of things to Zachary reality who was at the for the girls release party.

And Haley pulled Becca up on stage and gave her a rose and they kissed and it's just like, it's the cutest thing I'm obsessed with them.

Yeah, it was really cute. They definitely have that sort of vibe together like that couples who've been together for a long time have, you know, often when we get like a hard launch for a new bachelor nation couple, they like just started dating, but they're very just like, yeah, like we kiss all the time.

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