So a lot of our listeners, unfortunately or fortunately know the drama of our 10 year anniversary

date.

That's the basis of our vertical marriage book.

But I want to ask you, because, you know,

I've heard you tell this story a thousand times

of how you lost your feelings for me,

but when you describe what you felt,

you say you went from anger to resentment to bitterness.

Yes.

Talk about that a little bit.

Well, it's interesting because it was different.

I remember when I was angry with you, and oh this is just wrong it felt wrong but then that

anger turned to resentfulness like I'm mad at you but I'm also now resentful but then

something happened in my heart that became toxic I feel like like it was

poisoning every part of me that I didn't like you at all and nothing you could do

would make me happy.

Do you have, you felt it because we lived that.

Yeah, I'm smiling though because how could I think we were doing great. pursue the relationships that matter most. I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are

David Ann Wilson. You can find us at family life today.com. This is family life

today. I mean, I knew you were mad and you know we were yelling often as I was going to another church meeting.

But when you talk about bitterness,

I know that feeling.

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