"Be Unapologetically confident" How to BREAK Nice Girl Habits & have the AUDACITY to Command Respect PT1

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2025

⏱️ 65 minutes

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PART 1 This episode of Women of Impact brings to the forefront the incredible story and wisdom of Lisa Nichols, celebrated motivational speaker, best-selling author, and one of the world’s most-requested transformational coaches. Joining Lisa Bilyeu, Lisa opens up about her deeply personal journey from the darkness of toxic love to reclaiming her confidence, voice, and worth. T Through vivid storytelling, Lisa Nichols shares the early warning signs of a toxic relationship, her harrowing experience of abuse, and the pivotal “crawl” back to herself. If you’ve ever questioned your worth, doubted your instincts, or stayed silent to keep the peace, this conversation promises to shake you awake, offer solace, and supply you with actionable strategies to rebuild your life and self-esteem from the inside out. SHOWNOTES Toxic love vs. healthy love Lisa’s personal story: falling for the “representative” Early warning signs and red flags ignored The night that changed everything: trauma and survival Strategizing how to escape an abusive relationship Realizing the loss of self-worth and identity Daily mirror work and the practice of self-forgiveness Rebuilding by small wins and self-commitments Recognizing and rebuilding after gaslighting How to tell if love is compassionate or toxic The demands of toxic love vs. healthy support Lessons from healthy partnership after toxic relationships Passion vs. pain: What real intimacy is The power of knowing your “bar” (standards) Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa Follow Lisa Nichols: Website: https://motivatingthemasses.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisa2motivate YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LisaNichols Take Lisa’s Boldness Barometer to find out how bold you’re playing: https://motivatingthemasses.com/playbolder/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:31.6	What up my homie? This is Lisa Billu and you are listening to Women of Impact. Now, have you ever
0:36.5	met someone who just feels like everything that you've ever wanted is in this person?
0:41.8	He's charming, he's kind, he makes you feel seen.
0:44.8	Like maybe this time, this time is finally safe to just exhale.
0:48.8	But then the mask fricking slips.
0:50.8	The person who once lifted you up starts tearing you down bit by bit until you don't
0:56.3	even recognise yourself anymore. Well guys, that's the kind of heartbreak that doesn't just hurt. It
1:00.6	freaking changes you forever. And the question then becomes how the hell do you get back up after that?
1:05.3	How the hell do you find your voice, your worth, your power and become dangerously confident again?
1:11.3	Well, my guest today, the amazing motivational woman Lisa Nichols has walked through that fire.
1:17.6	She's lived the kind of pain that could have broken her.
1:20.4	It could have broken her guys.
1:22.2	But instead, she turned it into the thing that actually fueled her.
1:26.1	And what she learned is something that she can teach all of us.
1:29.5	Now, it may not be a toxic relationship.
1:31.1	It may not even be another person.
1:32.9	Maybe you have faced some downfalls.
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