Hi guys welcome back to Privy Lines podcast this is Sarah and Whitney and today's episode

We usually plan pretty good in advance, but this was one that we felt that we're we're not alone in this and it literally just came on and we're like

this is something we actually just need to put down and get it out to you guys we can't

so I hope we're not at least we're gonna

well we'll find that one out really you and I are in the same boat we're together

we're together in our ways but it is talking about expectations of ourselves and you may be going,

okay, I expect myself to be this kind of mom wife, you know, friend, all great.

Well, sometimes situations or parties, kids parties, celebrations, you really get to see what you place on yourself and that aftermath.

So Whitney, clue everybody in what are we talking about?

So my youngest had her third birthday this past Sunday said we did her

birthday on Saturday and just so everybody knows I'm not a

Pinterest mom I love the idea of it we love looking at it we love that vibe it would be

great but what I see and what my hands create it does not work if you all have seen

Those cake pictures online of what you see versus what you get or make I would be that it is the failed cookie monster cake that everybody

laughs about your gifts are clearly maternal mental health therapist you, there is so many.

It is not in making balloon arches and throwing a very extravagant birthday party.

That's okay, that's not in your will house at this moment.

It is not in my will house at this moment.

It is not in my will house and I don't know if it ever will be because my sister is a graphic

designer.

My mom can paint and sew and draw.

My dad can draw because he's a construction worker. I have zero

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