Be Less Available

Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore

Susie Moore

Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Philosophy, Life Coach, Motivational, Education, Personal Development, Life Coaching, Self-help, Mental Health

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🗓️ 29 December 2023

⏱️ 5 minutes

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As the big 4-0 approaches, I find myself in a contemplative space, ready to spill the truth on what really counts as we navigate this adventure called life. Picture this: the clock's hands race, and there you are—running to keep up, saying 'yes' to everything and everyone. But what happens when you decide to put a pause on the perpetual motion? In this episode, I'm laying down the law on the art of selectivity. It's not about shrinking from life's bountiful spread but choosing your por...

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0:00.0	Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.
0:10.0	Well, well, my friends.
0:12.0	Very soon I turn 40 January 2nd. And I'm releasing a list on New
0:19.7	Year's Day, January 1st to just my insiders my email list I send love letters every so
0:29.0	often to my people so make sure you're on my email list if you're not already.
0:35.0	Head to Susie-More.com and you'll receive on New Year's Day, January 1st, 40 life lessons I've learned in 40 years.
0:48.0	I've been spending a lot of time on it this week and I'm excited to share it with you.
0:53.0	One of the lessons that came up was something that I wanted to share with you today
0:59.0	because I think that we're not really taught this. It can be confusing. We can almost think, well, the opposite of what it is that I'm about to say is probably going to be helpful for you. But it has taken me a long time to learn this lesson as someone who loves people, as someone who loves to network, as someone who naturally has an excitement for life and also someone who's a pleaser.
1:26.3	Okay? Here is the lesson that's taken me a while to learn.
1:46.7	Be less available. What do I mean by that? Be less available. Don't be so available. My mom actually said that when I was a teenager growing up because I was running around a lot, right? I had of course school, I had a lot of part-time jobs which
1:51.0	I loved, had a lot of friends, had a lot of part-time jobs which I loved, had a lot of social stuff, and she could probably
1:56.7	tell that I was overextending myself with different friends, different people, different
2:01.6	opportunities.
2:03.0	And I think to myself, she was right all along,
2:07.0	but I did run myself ragged in my 20s and oh my gosh, my thotties are ending soon by kind of showing up for a lot of things.
2:16.5	And look it is important to show up to go to the right events for you, to make the right
2:22.1	new friends for you, to put yourself out there. But while you're doing
2:28.8	that, don't forget to be discerning. Not everything, not everywhere, not every event, not every person,
2:36.3	not every opportunity, not every coffee date, not every party, not every conference is going to be
2:41.9	right for you. And just because you're invited or just
2:45.4	because you heard about it or just because a friend's going doesn't mean it's a fit for
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