Baffled by "Bad" Behavior? Do This First

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.7 • 3.8K Ratings

🗓️ 13 August 2024

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

When our kids' behavior seems negative or inappropriate, we know we should disallow it. But what if the behavior continues? Or goes from bad to worse? What is our child needing from us or telling us that we're missing? There's often a simple, yet easy to overlook, answer. In this episode, Janet responds to notes from parents who have become alarmed by their kids' recent behavior. One child seems hooked on playing that he's a "bad guy" and becomes physically aggressive. Another tells his parents he wants to hurt them. A third is sneaking food and even medicine. These parents are unerringly patient and empathetic, but nothing seems to work. One parent writes: “It's been getting more intense over the past several months, and I really want it to stop, but I don't know how. Am I doing something wrong?” Janet has an idea for what they may be missing, and she explains how it applies in each of these families' situation.

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0:42.0	Hi, this is Janet Lansbury. Welcome to Unruffled. Today there were three questions that came up in different emails and in one case a message.
0:53.5	They're very different, but they all reminded me of something really,
0:59.2	really important that I think maybe gets taken for granted or maybe I've taken it for granted in some of my advice.
1:05.4	And it's crucial. It's the key to easing so many behaviors that our child has pretty much everything.
1:13.0	It's the key to developing the bond of trust that we all want with our children.
1:19.0	That sense that they have, that they can tell us anything, confide in us, show us whatever difficult things
1:27.1	are going through.
1:28.6	It's the key to all that and it will help us to solve all kinds of behavior issues that we're concerned about.
1:36.5	And here's the advice and then I'm going to talk about how it works in these different issues
1:40.5	that parents are raising with me. The advice is to do this first. See your
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