Bad Supervisors and Loving PIS
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.6 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 6 December 2024
⏱️ 78 minutes
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October 1, 2018
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, Deserving listeners. It's the time of my life when I try to answer as many of your emails |
| 0:09.3 | because they pile up and they're great questions and I thought I would try to bang out, is that a |
| 0:19.9 | phrase? A lot of the emails. |
| 0:21.5 | This email is from patron and YouTube member, annual patron, good old Rachel. |
| 0:28.2 | She says, Hi, Kirk and Psychology in Seattle team. |
| 0:31.8 | I wanted to share a quick story after receiving some feedback from my internship supervisor |
| 0:36.7 | and that I thought you would enjoy. |
| 0:39.3 | I'm currently in my third year of graduate school and working with clients under supervision. |
| 0:44.4 | Well, congratulations, Rachel. That is exciting. |
| 0:48.5 | My supervisor is great at helping me discover who I am as a therapist. |
| 0:51.6 | And recently after reviewing one of my sessions, he noted, |
| 0:54.5 | you're really good at explaining behavior, but you don't ask many questions. As I reflected on this, |
| 1:00.2 | I realized that I've unintentionally adopted your podcasting style in my sessions. For example, |
| 1:06.2 | if a client shares feelings of anxiety in their relationships, instead of asking something like, |
| 1:10.9 | how do you typically respond when you feel this way? I might find myself saying something like, |
| 1:15.6 | well, some people with an anxious attachment style, often fear abandonment, which leads to |
| 1:19.1 | blah, blah, blah, blah. I might throw in a, how do you feel about that, but that's only after |
| 1:25.1 | I've attempted to explain a psychological phenomenon in depth. Just chime in. Yeah, that's not a good thing. I mean, as a therapist |
| 1:34.2 | myself, I think I've mentioned this enough times, but I'll say it again. I don't talk much |
| 1:40.5 | as a therapist. I listen. It's not uncommon for me. I would say actually |
| 1:46.5 | a vast majority of time, by it's 98% of the time in the first 25 minutes of a therapy |
| 1:53.3 | session, I've basically said one thing and that's how you doing at the beginning of the session |
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