I'm Claire Fallon and I'm Emma Gray and this is Love to See It, an obsessively detailed

recap podcast about reality dating shows like The Bachelor and other pop culture that makes us laugh, cry, and curse the patriarchy.

We can't live with these shows and we can't live without them, but we can break down every juicy moment and unpack all the weird messages these shows send us about love, sex, and dating.

Welcome to Love to See It, a podcast about bros finding love in the wilderness and the tiny but mighty girl scouts who are there to whip them into shape with their demon voices and their bugles.

Here to break down week four of Charities Bachelor at Journey is comedian writer and co-host of the Lady to Lady and Toxic Podcast test Barker.

Thanks so much for joining us, Tess.

Thanks so much for having me.

We're so excited.

We're so excited.

Yeah, a lot to dig into in this episode, honestly.

Yeah, I'm excited to have this be the episode we're going to discuss because it was a big one.

Yeah, you got it.

You got a quality one.

But before we get into all of the drama that happened this week on Charities Journey to Find Love, we need to discuss a new friend of ours, the Golden Bachelor.

My dear friend and fellow Hoosier, Gary Turner, 71, a restaurant tour, a father, a grandfather, our new, our new like possibly greatest bachelor figure.

Like we've had so many dud bachelor's.

Could this man save the franchise?

It's just by being honest.

I'm maybe, maybe, honestly.

That gives him something different and I am here for it.

Yeah, maybe a few decades will make him as interesting as a woman.

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking, yeah, Clay.

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