Bachelor Parties vs. Bachelorette Parties: We Are Not the Same
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 4 May 2026
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
Jake's heading to Fort Lauderdale for a bachelor party with zero itinerary and a plan that's basically "watch the Knicks, find a Chili's." We kick things off comparing how differently men and women plan these trips, and it's not even close. We tackle a listener question about bachelorette party costs spiraling out of control and how to set a boundary without being labeled unsupportive. Then, A listener wrote back about last week's question on dating while your mom is dying — she kept dating, met someone who'd lost his own parent, and they're now getting engaged so her mom can be there.
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| 0:00.0 | I feel like we just did this. I know, that's exactly how I feel too. We sat down to record yesterday and then a few minutes in. We were like, nah, let's record tomorrow. Yeah, I was like more dressed up for that too. It was like the one time I feel like I ever had actual clothes on and I wasn't in like sweatpants in a t-shirt. That's funny because it probably, it was right after work. It was right after work. That's very funny. What would I look like if I dressed up? I was actually thinking about this because I have the Adobe speaking event in two weeks and I need to like put together an outfit for it. And'm like oh boy what does one wear not what does |
| 0:38.9 | one wear I know what people wear but like what do I wear because I can't wear this sweatset which is |
| 0:44.1 | new and someone's husband didn't recognize that I recognized they recognize they like it yeah yeah it's |
| 0:50.1 | very soft feel it's from this brand whiskey um spelled W-I-S-K-I-I. |
| 0:55.8 | They send it to me. |
| 0:56.8 | It's like a light pink and it's so soft. |
| 1:01.1 | The zippers are weird. |
| 1:02.2 | It's going up and down. |
| 1:03.1 | Okay, this is a thing. |
| 1:04.3 | This is a thing lately. |
| 1:06.0 | I learned this at my styling session with Danielle and Alex last week that it is a thing that like zippers have both top and bottom zippers now. |
| 1:15.1 | And you're supposed to like, |
| 1:16.1 | depending on what you're wearing it with, |
| 1:17.3 | you're supposed to slightly unzip the bottom zipper. |
| 1:22.3 | I don't get it. |
| 1:23.7 | I don't get fashion. |
| 1:24.9 | It's the first time I've ever seen that for sure. |
| 1:26.8 | It's the first time I've ever known what to do with it because they showed me last week. Okay. Anywho, hey guys, welcome back to Co-O's for Life. It's our Monday episode of Seeing Other People where Jake and I, he's Jake, I'm Oana, talk about what's going on in our marriage, what's going on in our life. we give you guys a recap of what we've been up to. We answer some listener questions. We talk about whatever you guys tell us to talk about pretty much. This is very much like if one person says, hey, don't talk about this anymore. Or if one person says, hey, please talk about that. And trust me, like, thousands of people listen to this. So it's just like, we're very receptive. We're very receptive. We want this to be whatever you guys want it to be. That is truly what we're here for. And at the end of the day, if however many people of you decide not to listen anymore, we've always said this is also just a diary for us. So thank you for being here. If it's your first time listening, thank you so much for giving us a shot. If you've been here before and you're coming back for the second week, second month, second year, fifth year. Thank you so much. It means the world. Really excited to get in today's episode before we do. Please listen through the ads because as I was reminded earlier this week, a lot of people don't know that if you don't listen to the ads and if you fast forward through them, podcasters don't get paid. |
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