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The Longest Shortest Time

Babymaking While Queer

The Longest Shortest Time

Hillary Frank | Realm

Kids & Family, Sexuality, Parenting, Health & Fitness

4.74.2K Ratings

🗓️ 22 February 2017

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

It's roundtable time! Two couples talk about family planning as queer people of color. And how their own parents and cultural backgrounds inform their decisions. … Join LST+ for community and access to You Know What, another show in the Longest Shortest universe! Follow us on Instagram Website: longestshortesttime.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey mama, hey mama, it's a black thing.

0:09.5

She won't understand because she ain't black.

0:13.8

She's a white.

0:15.5

She only knows a white thing, the white thing.

0:19.8

You guys remember this tape, right?

0:21.7

It's from episode 59.

0:23.7

The kid wrapping here is Curia Traber, age six.

0:28.0

Curia's mom is white.

0:29.4

Her dad is black.

0:31.2

And Curia made up this song for her mom to tell her how she'll never get what it means

0:35.8

to be black.

0:36.8

Curia and her mom were close, but being different races added a layer of complexity to their relationship.

0:45.3

And I said mama, you don't know it now.

0:49.6

So you won't know whatever.

0:52.4

Because mama, it's a black thing.

0:58.2

Curia is 32 now.

0:59.9

She identifies as a black woman with mixed heritage.

1:03.4

And she's not wrapping about race anymore, but she still thinks about race a lot, especially

1:08.9

when it comes to the possibility of having kids.

1:11.9

I've always known I wanted to be a parent, since I was little.

1:16.2

I was one of those little girls that had baby dolls and was like, I'm in half, ten babies.

1:20.8

And I was just really into babies.

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