Babe, you are not a "MAYBE". Choose yourself and get out of waiting energy.

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Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 31 August 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Never Be Someone's Maybe: Choose Yourself First

In this episode, I dive into the transformative power of fully choosing and loving yourself. I emphasize that once you make a conscious decision to prioritize yourself, everything misaligned will naturally fall away. I share personal anecdotes about my past relationships and how being someone's 'maybe' drained my self-worth and confidence. I explain that the uncertain 'maybe' energy in relationships kept me stuck and blocked me from receiving life’s blessings. By choosing myself first and stepping into my power, I was able to manifest a more abundant and fulfilling life. This episode underscores the importance of self-worth, certainty, and alignment in attracting the right people and opportunities into your life.

00:00 Choosing Yourself: The Power of Self-Love

00:40 The Pain of 'Maybe' Relationships

02:04 Realizing Self-Worth in Relationships

05:08 Breaking Free from Toxic Cycles

09:27 The Journey to Self-Healing

20:08 Living in the Fourth Dimension

22:35 Navigating New Relationships with Self-Worth

27:38 Choosing Yourself and Eliminating 'Maybe' Energy

28:29 Personal Anecdote: The Equality Debate

29:25 The Impact of 'Maybe' Frequency on Relationships

35:41 Manifesting Through Alignment and Certainty

44:00 The Power of Making Clear Decisions

50:05 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement

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0:00.0	when you make a decision, a conscious choice to choose yourself and to love yourself so wholeheartedly.
0:06.9	Everything that is misaligned will fall away. It can't match your frequency. Your power is in knowing
0:13.6	how amazing you are. Your power is in the clarity of knowing how fucking incredible you are.
0:19.9	And when you're fully so confident in who you are,
0:23.8	you're not going to even be able to allow people who aren't sure about you into your field
0:28.7	anymore. You attract who you are. Everyone is a mirror to where you are at in your life.
0:34.7	Regardless if you want to hear that, that's the truth. Being someone's
0:38.4	maybe never feels good. On today's episode, I really wanted to cover this concept of choosing yourself
0:44.4	so fully that you're never that may be anymore to someone. Because I know how it feels to be
0:52.0	in the waiting room with someone trying to make a decision about you.
0:56.0	You are not a maybe.
0:57.8	You are already chosen.
1:00.0	Every single guy I've dated in the past gave me maybe energy.
1:05.7	Even if we were in a relationship, just because someone commits to you and you're in a relationship doesn't mean that you
1:12.7	feel that security of a full body yes. Every single guy that I was in any sort of romantic
1:19.4	situation with, I realized gave me maybe energy. There was a maybe energy, a maybe dynamic. And what that did was it broke down my
1:32.7	sense of self, my self-worth, and my confidence. I was dating people who were always unsure of me
1:40.6	and being with me because of either their own insecurities, what they were dealing with in their
1:45.9	life, or maybe for some reason it just wasn't an energetic match and they thought that I wasn't
1:53.0	the right person for them, which is fine. At the end of the day, everyone has the right to feel the way
1:58.3	that they feel. But I chose to stay there.
2:01.9	I chose to stay in those relationships.
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