Avielle & The Critical Physical Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 4 November 2024

⏱️ 97 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Avielle about her marriage to a critical physical abuser. Avielle's ex always had a way of getting his foot in the door, even after he abandoned Avielle after they got married. Once he got back into Avielle's life, Avielle took her marriage vows very seriously and did her best to make the relationship work. However, once they had kids, the emotional and physical abuse ramped up, and Avielle was afraid to leave due to the threats of being arrested. It's a story of criticism, put downs, being good enough, shame, family pressure, the normalcy of chaos, threats, commitment, double standards, abandonment, physical abuse, sexual abuse, intimidation, rage, walking on eggshells, and the pitfalls of potential. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse and sexual assault. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:25.1	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Aviel.
0:31.7	And Aviel was married to a critical physical abuser.
0:35.6	It's a story of chaos, threats, being good enough, and with me today, we have Aviel. How are you?
1:16.0	I am good. Thank you i am good thank you well thank you for being here and if you want to be a guest like avial is today please do go to our website at narcissistapocalypse.com
1:21.3	and click on the guest form button at the top of the page there you can read all of our instructions
1:25.7	and please read them all and either send us an email at narcisscissist Apocalypse at gmail.com, or fill out the guest form
1:32.1	and press the submit button, and please do send it in the format that we ask for.
1:36.2	And there is a content warning for this episode, as we do discuss physical abuse and sexual
1:40.7	assault in this episode. So that is your content warning for today. And today
1:45.6	you're going to hear Aviel's story. And Aviel, like many, had a very hard time leaving the abusive
1:52.5	relationship. And there was also a big fear of losing her kids that went along with everything.
1:58.2	Aviel has been through a lot. And we're just happy that she's here to tell
2:02.2	her story. So now I'm going to get out of my way and your way. Aviel, the floor is now yours.
2:10.5	So I guess I will start with my my background. I grew up in a unique family situation. My parents were teenage parents. My mom was
2:21.5	15 when she had me, and my dad was 17 at the time. And so their relationship was very passionate,
2:31.3	but also very volatile and kind of chaotic. So with that, I kind of was raised by
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