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The Kevin Miller Podcast

Authentically Connect With Others By First Connecting With Yourself & Your Motives w/ Pulitzer Prize-Winning Journalist Charles Duhigg

The Kevin Miller Podcast

Kevin Miller

Education, Relationships, How To, Social Sciences, Nutrition, Life Sciences, Spirituality, Medicine, Religion & Spirituality, Science, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.41.4K Ratings

🗓️ 24 November 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

If I asked you why we communicate with others, what would your reply be? I think my mind initially went to sharing information. But as you will soon hear, my guest cites that only 15-18% of our daily communications are about mere information. What is the primary reason we communicate then? We communicate to connect with others. My interest then is considering how much of my communication actually results in true connection. I have a world expert with me. Charles Duhigg. Charles is a Pulitzer prize-winning journalist and the author of The Power of Habit, which spent over three years on bestseller lists is my favorite book on habits. In February of 2024 I had him here on the show for the first time to talk about his then new book, Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection. The book has already sold over a million copies and I brought him back on to talk further about my own evolution in connecting, and to celebrate the release of the paperback version of Supercommunicators. Charles also writes for The New Yorker magazine and previously wrote for The New York Times and is a graduate of Yale University and Harvard Business School. You can connect with him at charlesduhigg.com. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome. I'm Kevin Miller. This is a podcast for your personal evolution. In this episode,

0:06.9

authentically connect with others by first connecting with yourself and your motives.

0:13.7

If I ask you why we communicate with others, what would your reply be? I think my mind initially

0:20.1

went to, well, sharing information. But as you're soon going to hear, my guest cites that only 15 to 18%

0:26.4

of our daily communications are about mere information. What's the primary reason we communicate then?

0:33.4

Well, we communicate to, as he says, connect with others. So my interest then is considering how much of my communication actually results and is even

0:42.8

focused on true connection.

0:44.9

I have a world expert with us today, Charles Duhigg.

0:49.2

Charles is a Pulitzer Prize winning journalist and the author of The Power of Habit,

0:53.5

which spent over three

0:54.6

years on the bestseller list, sold three million copies or more. It is my favorite book on

1:00.1

Habits. That's how I first got introduced to Charles. So when they came to me with his next book,

1:04.7

I was all in. And that was February of 2024. I had him here on the show for the first time to talk about his then new book,

1:12.6

Super Communicators, how to unlock the secret language of connection.

1:16.8

That book has already sold a million copies, and I brought him back on to talk further

1:23.2

about my own evolution and connecting even since then, and to celebrate the release of the paperback

1:29.6

version of Super Communicators, and it's been published in I don't know how many different languages

1:34.0

already.

1:35.2

Charles, you may know, also writes for the New Yorker magazine.

1:38.1

He previously wrote for the New York Times.

1:40.3

He's a graduate of Yale University at Harvard Business School.

1:43.9

You can find him at Charles Duhigg, D-U-H-I-G-G-G-com.

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