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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Attracted To Emotionally Unavailable Men

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8808 Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2025

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you seem drawn to the same type of person, but that "type" is someone who is emotionally unavailable? Why are certain people drawn to these types of unhealthy cycles of relationships, and how do you break the cycle? Today I talk to Erica, who is tired of emotionally unavailable men, and wanting to understand her role in attracting these types of relationships. Listen into this powerful conversation! You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She's written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She's also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Right wrong or indifference, when I'm attracted to somebody or someone's attracted to me,

0:08.0

it's hard for me.

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I find it to just walk away from that without it being a reason.

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And so I'm willing to try.

0:17.0

I'm willing to tough it out.

0:19.0

I'm willing to, you know, not give up so easy. Just as of yet,

0:22.5

it hasn't played in my favor. Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a

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licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author. Through my blog, books, and

0:39.1

podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally,

0:44.9

spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic,

0:51.4

counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my

0:56.8

guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.

1:02.5

Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,

1:07.8

mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally together. None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path alone.

1:20.6

I'm so proud and honored to be having these conversations with men and women who are courageously paving the way for open and honest

1:29.0

conversations about their personal journey of healing. So if you're ready, let's talk.

1:35.6

I'm so excited to be focusing in on singleness and dating throughout the month of March.

1:41.4

We opened up our hotline to callers who want to talk to me

1:44.5

about their dating life, as well as their struggles with singleness. If you want to go a little

1:50.1

deeper into the subject of healthy dating, be sure to check out my book True Love Dates,

1:55.7

your indispensable guide to finding the love of your life, and learn what it means to get healthy and attract

2:03.0

healthy. This is a topic that is so close to my heart because I truly believe that healthy

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