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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Attracted To Emotionally Unavailable Men

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you seem drawn to the same type of person, but that “type” is someone who is emotionally unavailable? Why are certain people drawn to these types of unhealthy cycles of relationships, and how do you break the cycle? Today I talk to Erica, who is tired of emotionally unavailable men, and wanting to understand her role in attracting these types of relationships. Listen into this powerful conversation! You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Do you want your teenager to go on the adventure of a lifetime, all the while learning the ability to know God's truth, discern wisely, and take godly action in the world?

0:09.1

My name is Andrew Hawk, and I'm the camp director at the Excel Summer Leadership Camp.

0:13.6

Every summer we take teenagers on two-week adventures to help them grow in their leadership, discernment, and Christ-like character.

0:19.4

Between camping, rock climbing, hiking, and

0:21.6

whitewater rafting, campers build lifelong friendships while also training in Excel college's

0:25.9

game-changing critical thinking method. They'll learn to filter through the cultural messages of the day

0:30.4

with godly wisdom and to learn how to apply those in the method in real-life context through

0:35.3

wilderness first aid and CPR training.

0:39.7

A few months ago, I received a message from Melissa,

0:40.9

one of our past campers.

0:43.8

When her mom and her were overseas, her mother got injured,

0:46.4

and she used her training to make a huge difference according to doctors to be able to get help when it was needed.

0:49.1

We love to hear stories like this.

0:50.9

Not only do campers leave with practical skills,

0:52.9

but also with a deeper faith in Jesus

0:54.4

and lifelong community. I want to personally invite your teenager to join us this summer by going

0:59.7

to theexcelcamp.org. That's theexcelcamp.org.

1:07.0

Right wrong or indifference, when I'm attracted to somebody or someone's attracted to me, it's hard for me.

1:14.6

I find it to just walk away from that without it being a reason.

1:19.6

And so I'm willing to try. I'm willing to tough it out. I'm willing to not give up so easy.

1:25.6

Just as of yet, it hasn't played in my favor.

1:33.6

Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional

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