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🗓️ 23 January 2021
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0:00.0 | Hey deserving listeners, this is Chapter 3 in my attachment theory deep dive. |
0:12.2 | In this episode, the main focus that I'm going to focus on is how do we use attachment theory to improve our lives? |
0:20.0 | This is the most important thing to any good psychotherapy theory. |
0:26.0 | I mean, it helps us to understand people. |
0:28.0 | It's a good model for conceptualizing people, but really the only reason why we're even conceptualizing people or ourselves |
0:34.0 | or other people's experience is because we're trying to make positive change. |
0:39.0 | We're trying to help. |
0:39.8 | We're trying to help others, we're trying to help ourselves, we're trying to help |
0:42.2 | our relationships. |
0:43.7 | And so this episode is about that. |
0:45.5 | It's about the clinical side and also the personal side to that. |
0:49.1 | I'm also going to talk about how I use attachment theory to help my students and my supervisees, not just my clients and not just myself. |
0:56.2 | We're also, you know, going to talk about what did Bulby recommend we do with this theory to help other people because late in Bulby's |
1:05.1 | career he had some very important things to say about how we can use his theory to |
1:10.3 | help other people. Also how should we use attachment theory with our spouses or our children? |
1:17.2 | Well, actually, those might be another chapter entirely, I'm not quite sure, but eventually I'll get to that. |
1:26.2 | I've said this in other chapters but it bears repeating is that I use attachment theory every day. I use it with my clients |
1:30.6 | with my students, my supervisors, my wife, myself, my cat, my students my students my supervisors my wife myself my cat my dog I use |
1:36.8 | it in all those areas every day I'm thinking about it all the time it's useful in in so many different areas. It helps me to be a better person. It helps me to make a positive difference in the world, which is my humble mission in life. |
1:51.0 | So this chapter is about how to use attachment theory, how to use it to affect change |
1:56.8 | in yourself and in others. |
1:58.4 | I'm going to provide a step-by-step process that I have found to be useful. |
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