Hello and welcome to Morning Ray. I'm your host, Lan or Lana, and today is one of our

Ask Lan advice columns. I'm recording this at night. I just showered. I feel like today's

episode is going to feel very much like sleepover vibes.

Like, you know, when you're laying your head down on the pillow and you guys are both like,

we're going to go to bed. But then you end up chatting and having really deep conversations

while your eyes are closed and then you both kind of just trickle and fall asleep.

Like that kind of energy.

That's kind of the vibe we're going for over here today.

So buckle up, tune in.

Everything is going to be kind of on a friendship and relationship theme.

I picked questions from our Ask Lan Google form that I shared on my stories.

And it's always linked in the show notes. I always

update it for like the season or whatever. Like right now it's our spring, summer,

2025 one. But I pulled all of your questions. As always, everything is anonymous. I'm really excited

to do this. I've been wanting to do a friendship episode. I think

I'm still going to do like a dedicated making friends, maintaining friendships in your 20s,

what it's like having friends growing up, like as you as you grow up, that kind of thing.

So let me know if that interests you. But yeah, I'm, I'm excited. I love Asklands. You guys know

they are some of my favorite episodes. I feel like I get to know you guys a bit more. It feels a bit

more personal. I feel more connected with you guys. So it's a lot of of fun and i know you guys really appreciate the advice

and my perspective on things i'd always like to make the disclaimer that i'm just a 25 year old girl

obviously i don't know you i don't know every single bit of context. I only know what you give me. So take it with

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