Ask G Q&A: Red Flags, Roommate Husbands & The Friend Who Lowkey Hates You
Don't Be A Dick with Gretchen Clark
Gretchen Clark
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🗓️ 13 April 2026
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
New format. Same energy. Way more chaos.
Welcome to the very first Ask Gretchen Anything episode, where nothing is off-limits and the advice is… aggressively honest.
You guys wrote in with everything, from “should I dump my boyfriend?” (spoiler: probably) to situationships that are making you feel insane, to those gut feelings you can’t ignore but keep trying to rationalize anyway.
This is real talk. No sugarcoating. No “it depends.” Just the kind of advice your friends wish they had the guts to give you.
We’re talking:
the difference between a “normal relationship lull” and “this is not your person”
why situationships are basically self-sabotage in disguise
when your gut is whispering… and when it’s screaming
and how to actually start choosing yourself instead of settling
If you’ve ever felt stuck, confused, or like you’re lowkey betraying yourself just to keep the peace… this one’s for you.
Send your questions, your drama, your “Sunday secrets” (legal ones only, please 😅)… and let’s get into it.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm going to be brutally honest with you. |
| 0:01.9 | You are going to hate yourself and resent him and just be pissed off at yourself if you stay in this relationship. Dead ass. When you get out of this relationship, it's going to suck. You're going to feel sad. You're going to feel lonely. You're going to have the thoughts of like, oh my gosh, I'm never going to get into another relationship again. 1,000%. You might go through a phase where you're like, oh, well, should I just get back into it? I am literally telling you, if you get back into that relationship, you are settling. And if you resent him and get pissed off at yourself later in life, it's your own damn fault. And I literally say that because I love you. |
| 0:43.0 | D-bad baby. That stands for don't be a dick if you're new here. And we're not sugar-coding shit. So let's get into it, shall we? |
| 0:50.6 | Hi, my beautiful gals. How are we doing? I am so excited that we set up this email address for you guys to type in like questions, advice, funny things, Sunday secrets, whatever it is that you fucking want. Because I have just glanced through them and I'm like, this is what I fucking love about my platform. This is what I love about this community. It's just people wanting to be better, people asking, |
| 1:11.8 | should I dump my dusty boyfriend? If you're asking, the answer is always yes. And just like |
| 1:15.8 | chatting about life and relationships and dating and knowing that you guys are made for so much |
| 1:21.4 | more and me validating you and telling you that you are correct, that you do deserve more, |
| 1:26.7 | validating that if you can't stop thinking about something or you think that something should change, you feel like you're living too small, you feel like the person is not meant for you, that you are correct, and you should follow your dreams, and you should live the life that you fucking want. Cool. If you missed it, I started a new email address. It's called AskGBClark at gmail.com. |
| 1:45.1 | If you're new to this community, you might not have seen back in the day when I would always put up |
| 1:49.9 | question boxes and it would be like, ask me anything, but it was more like advice, dating, |
| 1:55.3 | relationships, business, sales, shit like that. And I would put up a question box on Instagram |
| 2:00.3 | stories. And if you think of that, you can literally only type like 10 to 15 fucking words. So people would respond in like three different things. But when you get a certain amount of responses just so you know from the back end, they don't come to me in order. So it'd be like part one and then part seven and then it was was like impossible to keep up with and I don't |
| 2:17.8 | know I just think that some things need a little bit more meat in order for me to like give my actual |
| 2:23.2 | advice on and I'm not saying that I always have the exact perfect advice and know exactly what to say |
| 2:28.6 | I will say though humbly and all my friends have told me this is that I'm the person that a lot of |
| 2:33.6 | them come to for sound advice I've been through a lot of'm the person that a lot of them come to for sound |
| 2:35.3 | advice. I've been through a lot of shit. I've seen a lot of shit. I've helped them through a lot of |
| 2:39.1 | shit because I've been through it myself. It's just something that like I love to do. Actually, |
| 2:43.1 | one of Troy's friends said that I was the white girl Joe Rogan who will make you dump your |
| 2:47.0 | boyfriend. And I was like, I love that. I'm obviously nowhere close to Joe Rogan, |
| 2:51.9 | but I will, I will take the, we'll make you dump your boyfriend accolade. I like that. |
| 2:57.0 | So anyway, if you want to see those on my Instagram, I have like 10 highlight bubbles. It just says |
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