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Slay Girl Slay

Ask For What You Want

Slay Girl Slay

Ashley Leggs

Self-improvement, Education

4.92.9K Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2026

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

If you’ve been holding back from going after a big goal because you’re afraid of rejection, this episode will change how you see the word no. Ashley shares her real time journey through the traditional publishing process and breaks down why rejection is not failure but proof that you showed up and participated. You will learn how to build resilience, separate your worth from outcomes, and develop the audacity required to ask boldly for what you want in your career, business, and life. Because you do not need fifty yeses to change your life. You only need one. Get The Maintenance Manual Workbook Here: ⁠⁠Download Link⁠⁠ Today’s Sponsors: Try BetterHelp and get 10% off your first month using our code ⁠⁠⁠⁠SLAY⁠⁠⁠⁠. Try Shopify for $1 a month using our code SLAY. Reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money using our code SLAY. Join Us on Substack: Start your week with ⁠⁠⁠Happy Monday!⁠⁠⁠ Our weekly letter full of inspiration, motivation, and tools to help you slay your goals.  Follow Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠ If you’d like to help keep the Slay Girl Slay podcast going, ⁠⁠⁠you can ⁠donate here⁠⁠⁠⁠. Every contribution makes a difference. Slay Girl Slay podcast is an AshMedia production, hosted by ⁠⁠⁠⁠Ashley Leggs⁠.⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Slay Girl Slay podcast, a space designed to uplift, to motivate, and to inspire you,

0:08.5

to be fearless in the pursuit of your dreams, go after what you deserve, and show up as your

0:15.5

most unapologetic, most authentic self. This audio series was created for every woman who's on the verge of her come-up.

0:23.7

She's creating her own vibe and fiercely transforming her life. So sit down with me, get your notebook,

0:31.4

grab a pen, and let's create the life that you've always dreamed of. I'm your host, Ashley Legs, and this is the Slay Girl

0:40.8

Slee podcast. Hey, girl, hey, welcome back to the Slee Girl Slave podcast. I hope you all are well,

0:51.8

and your week is off to the best, best start. Y'all, I am a little behind,

0:57.9

but did y'all watch the Super Bowl? I should have talked about this last week. I did not know who

1:03.5

was playing in the Super Bowl until I turned on the halftime show to watch Bad Bunny here in chicago we were really hoping the bears were

1:13.1

going to make it to the super bowl i mean even for them to get as far as they did was a miracle and the

1:18.3

city was so alive those last couple of weeks that they were playing y'all i had a friend that was

1:23.8

like girl i didn't know you watched football i didn't know you were a fan because i was getting like

1:27.4

you know the shirts and the hats and the hoodies. I'm not a football fan, okay? I'm a Chicago fan. Let's be clear. I am a fan of the city. So it doesn't matter what team is playing. The bears, the bulls, the cubs. We're excited and we stand. But I tuned in for the

1:47.3

halftime show. Child didn't understand a word bad bunny said, but was vibing. Okay. I'm so glad he

1:55.0

didn't speak any English for all the weird folks out there. You all know what I'm talking about.

2:02.8

I saw someone online say when Kendrick performed, people didn't understand him either. And it was in English. And yeah,

2:09.7

that's true. But I hope this episode finds you well, boo. Thank you to all of you that picked up

2:16.8

the maintenance manual last week.

2:19.3

You made the decision to take better care of yourselves this year and stay on top of your health

2:23.5

and well-being. My favorite part of the manual is the page where you can create your own mood menu.

2:30.2

I've been really into that. And basically the workbook prompts you and there's different questions

2:35.1

like if you're feeling sad or if you're feeling overwhelmed, if you're feeling angry. And it makes you

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