Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast. I'm your co-host, Christina Dodson. This is an Ask

Dr. Kim segment where people submit their questions for Dr. Kim Kim, and he answers them.

Thanks for listening.

So today we're doing an Ask Dr. Kim podcast where people submit their questions to Dr. Kim, and then we take the time to sit here and answer them.

So the question that we got from one listener today is, I have this terrible feeling that my

husband is having an affair. What do I do? Do I confront him? Do I try to catch him doing

something wrong? I kind of catch him in the act of the affair. So this is such a difficult

topic, Dr. Kim. And unfortunately, one that's just, I think, is in a lot of

people's marriages, this suspiciousness and just the worry and the anxiety that might come with

thinking that your spouse is having an affair. So how are we supposed to know if these feelings

are valid and if we should even confront our spouse about it? What do you think, Dr. Kim?

Yeah, I think it is complicated just because

we live in a culture where we know there's so many affairs. You know, when Cindy and Bill and I talked

about on a podcast, she's used the word epidemic. And I think we see that. So most people probably

have somebody, a friend, a relative, or somebody that's had an affair or that's been an affair

or had that happen to. So I think we're more conscious of it than, you know, that could it happen to me, those kind of

things. And if your marriage isn't great and there's some insecurities, and I think you're more

vulnerable to that. And so sometimes, obviously, the feelings are are not valid. It's just

may become some insecurities. So what I would say, is there something that goes along with it

that's making those feelings there?

Do you see your spouse hiding their phone?

Do you see your spouse texting

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