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🗓️ 29 November 2023
⏱️ 45 minutes
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0:00.0 | Hello, and welcome to Child Proof by Betches Media. I'm Guinales Lund, and I'm Tori Phantom. |
0:11.8 | This episode goes out to all the people who email us. We do read those, and we love your |
0:16.0 | stories, fails, wins, and questions. In fact, we love them so much. This episode is made |
0:22.4 | up of folks who emailed us. Welcome to our second email roundup. |
0:27.8 | That would have been cool if it was all echoey and epic, like, |
0:33.1 | like, but cool. Yeah, yeah, it would have been, but I don't know. I don't know how to do that. |
0:39.7 | I don't either, but I do know how to set the timer. So let's do that. |
0:44.1 | Okay, here we go. So our first email comes from Betty J. We have shielded personal |
0:50.5 | information. So Betty J asked us, can you gentle parent a one-year-old? I'm trying desperately |
0:56.8 | to gentle parent use positive reinforcement and the like, but occasionally a sharp note |
1:01.3 | has to be used. My problem is that he seems to listen to nothing, whether it be gentle or sharp. |
1:07.1 | What is an effective way to get the point across without evolving into constantly yelling? |
1:12.8 | This is a great question. It's a great question with a seemingly disappointing answer. |
1:18.9 | Yes, I want to be clear here that my answer is not commissending or dismissive, |
1:23.7 | but when we are talking about a one-year-old, the parenting is different. The parenting is so different |
1:29.0 | before our kids can effectively communicate with us and we're just kind of talking at them, |
1:33.0 | hoping they understand. So it takes time. It takes time, and I also think it might be |
1:40.2 | really beneficial for you to change the way you are viewing gentle parenting, |
1:49.2 | because gentle parenting at its core is not just sounding like misreach a lot of time, |
1:57.4 | and never showing any sort of negative emotion. It is okay that you use a sharp note sometimes |
2:03.2 | with a one-year-old. It's important. I mean, it's that kind of thing. It goes back to that old saying |
2:09.0 | of, would you rather yell at your kid because they're about to touch the hot stove or let them touch it? |
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