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Hey there, folks. It is Monday, August 18th, and one of our readers to our Yahoo column, Brenda.

She wrote in, and she needs a little relationship advice. You see, she's a second wife.

And her husband's grandkids, well, they're not the

problem actually. It's grandma. Yeah, grandma won, if you will. So what exactly is a woman to do?

Well, my take is, well, this is not have anything to do with anybody being a grandma or a granddad.

This is just a classic old ex story.

And your take, Role initially was?

This is about respect.

So when you have a second wife and you have to have a relationship with your first wife

because of your children or your grandchildren, whatever that is,

a lot of folks are familiar with this. If the ex is flirty, as Brenda is saying, and touchy,

feely, then yeah, it's a matter of respect. He needs to have some boundaries. So yes, folks,

welcome to this relationship edition of Amy and T.J. Where we go through the new column of the week.

That new column on Yahoo.com in the life section.

You can check it out where we give folks right into us asking questions about relationships

and not just about romantic relationships.

It could be with a coworker, with a friend, or with a relative of any kind.

But we got a new one this week from Brenda.

And Rob, this has been a, they're interesting in the back and forth and some of the details and the

ones and the questions we've been getting are a little different, but they all really come down

to a core principle.

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