I only want to talk if I feel like people are in a generous mood to listen.

I think generous listening means that we understand that someone is coming from a place of

context, coming from a place of nuance, coming from a place of understanding their own ability to be wrong

Coming from a place that they want to be good. You know I was like starting to be like I only want to put things out to people that are coming to me with that generosity.

You are listening to made of human also known as the mole

a podcast hosted by Sophie Hagen who is a Danish comedian

Mowo trying to find out how to do life

but it turns out nobody knows

Mopah

Welcome back to the second part of the Traverse Alebancer chat that I had. If you have not listened to last week's episode, which was part one, you might want to go back and give it a little listen. I highly recommend skipping past the first, what is it, four hours where I just ramble and ramble and ramble with nowhere to go.

Oh, if that's what you're in to, then do listen to it. I'm in a I've been

listening to a lot of podcasts and because I'm in this isolation I mean I say it as

if I'm the only one which by the way in the future the context of this episode.

This is mid-pandemic, this was recorded I think on day 20 something of the lockdown. I'm recording this a bit later and I've been inside now for 35

6, 7, I don't know, so I've lost count a month over a month and I've now started I've already

texted 1X of course I have I've already taken questionable nudes and sent them to consenting people of course.

Develop new crashes. You know all I've bought a ukulele you know all I bought a ukulele you know it's just um just just just

just the normal sort of stuff that you do in isolation and one of the things I did was I so dumb. I went back in time and listened to not a recent but like within the last year episode where my ex was another ex was interviewed and it was the most frustrating thing.

I was 10 years younger than I am now when I dated him and he was 10 years older than me and I would tell him, not going to make me sound good, but I would tell him what was wrong with him.

You know? I'd be like, oh, you do this because of this thing in your life and I'm pretty sure that your parents,

this thing has made you do this thing. And you know, like it was just very, very very obvious he was kind of easy to read and his

I don't know it was I just remember being like listen these are your issues if you want to work on them.

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