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The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

Are Your Boundaries Too Much?

The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

Jamie Scrimgeour

Kids & Family, Education, Parenting, Self-improvement

4.9694 Ratings

🗓️ 22 September 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Boundaries are extremely important to implement and hold in your relationships, but in my years as a stepmom coaching I’ve come to find that many people misunderstand what boundaries are.  Boundaries are not about controlling another person - they are about communicating your needs and preferences in regards to how people treat you. Good boundaries should get you closer to the dynamic you need in your relationship, not further away from it.  Today, Darren and I are diving into boundaries that stepmoms have submitted. You’ll hear boundary talk about:  Kids in the bedroom  Sending memes to the ex  Constant communication with the ex  Kids dropping by unannounced outside of the custody agreement   Driving the step kids to bio mom’s house to pick up things they forgot  Sitting with the ex at events Work with Jamie:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Join Elevate:  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate  Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. OSEA | Clean skincare that actually works. Go to www.oseamalibu.com and use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your order.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Okay, stepmoms, I need to let you in on a little something. You know, in this podcast, we talk about the messy stuff, the burnout, the arguments with your partner, the resentment, the overthinking, the way that stepfamily stress creeps into all other areas of your life. Well, imagine being in a space where we don't just talk about it. We actually change it. That's what elevate is. It is my new high proximity group coaching program. It's my inner circle, if you will. It is for the stepmom who's done with the tips that they don't actually implement or the vent sessions that don't go anywhere. They're ready for real transformation. Inside Elevate, you're not just going to be listening to me on a podcast once a week. You're going to get coached directly by me. Not only will you get all my

0:37.9

strategies and mindset shifts and approach to thriving in this rule, you'll have access to me in real

0:42.9

time when the triggers hit, when the ex sends the texts, when the resentment starts building,

0:47.8

and you're also going to be surrounded by other stepmums who get it and who are doing the same work

0:52.2

at a high level. You've probably heard me say,

0:55.2

stepmom life has a way of making an otherwise confident woman feel unrecognizable to herself.

1:00.1

Something tells me you're thriving in all other areas of your life, but stepmom life has rocked you

1:04.5

to your core. Let's change that. The transformations that happen with stepmoms who work with me

1:10.1

are wild.

1:15.0

Stepmums who couldn't walk into their kitchen without feeling tension are now hosting family dinners without a pit in their stomach. Women who are consumed by resentment now feel calm and

1:19.9

grounded and in control of how they show up, even after a scathing email from the ex. They're

1:24.6

thriving in their family, in their relationships, in their finances. They're

1:28.0

crushing their dreams. They're crushing their goals. Energy that was once spent consumed by

1:32.9

stepmom's stress is now being directed into other areas of their life. So if you want to join my

1:37.7

intimate, high touch inner circle, go to jamiescrimter.com forward slash elevate to join.

1:43.3

Elevate is small on purpose, so it stays intimate and high touch.

1:47.1

Once it's full, it's full.

1:49.1

So if you've been listening to the podcast thinking, I don't want to feel like this anymore,

1:53.2

this is your next step.

1:54.6

Doors close soon.

1:55.7

Go to jamiescrimger.com forward slash elevate or click the link in the show notes to save your spot.

2:07.7

Thank you. or click the link in the show notes to save your spot. Hey, it's Jamie Scrimger.

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