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Hey guys, welcome back to Uyam at Acme.

This is a solo episode for the month, and we will be talking about basically trusting your

gut and your intuition and early dating versus self-sabotaging, which a lot of our single

listeners feel like it's hard for them to tell the difference between,

and I get it because I've been there on both sides.

I have not trusted my gut and suffered, and I have definitely self-sabotaged when it was just

a nice person, and we'll get into it.

But basically, this actually came from one of our listeners who was

like, I need you to talk about this subject because I'm struggling with it. And so if you're

struggling, I hear you. This is for you. And then the second part of the episode, we are going to

get into some questions that you guys asked me

and I'm going to be really honest and have honestly no idea what kind of questions are going to

be asked. So that'll be fun. Okay. So we're dating. You're early dating. You're going on, let's say, let's,

let's do a very relatable situation, right? You're talking to someone on a dating app. And the date is

coming up. You have it in the calendar and you're like, I just don't want to go. I just don't want to go.

Like I just don't feel like it, this and that.

How normal is that? And is that a sign that you shouldn't go? Is that your gut saying,

don't waste your time, is your intuition? Or is that self-sabotage? Is that fear? And we're going to

kind of get into the difference between all

of these different things. In my opinion, if you haven't met them in person and something is

telling you you shouldn't go, unless they're really fucking annoying and they're sending you

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