There's this potential for something we call in research, fatal attraction. And fatal attraction is where

the thing that initially attracted you to somebody becomes the exact same thing that you later

despise about that person. And so it factors in here because all that success, all that success,

that wealth, the job title, what does it take to get that? It takes a lot of time.

It takes a lot of time, energy, and focus away from that person's personal relationships.

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high value men,

date with a strategy, and improve

their relationships. Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to

help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else, backed by science,

psychology, and our own personal experiences. Your host today are myself, Adam Laudalche,

professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies,

and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies.

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Today, we are going to be talking about shiny object syndrome, as you just called Gary SOS.

Watch out for these things, right?

These are the things that dear God, when you're dating, you're like, I want that so badly.

This is going to make me so happy once I have it.

But then like three months into a relationship, it is totally irrelevant to your life.

And it's something that you always say that always sticks with me. If there's

any, like this is going to be on your tombstone, which is what gets us together isn't what keeps us

together. What do you think? I'm going to tell your wife to put that on your tombstone. No, I like it.

It's true. What I like about calling this shiny object syndrome and SOS is that these are qualities

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