In today's podcast, we are going to be answering the question that I know all of you have been

asking yourself, which is, how would you date if you wanted to make yourself miserable?

It's a really funny question to ask, but there's actually a lot of importance to this framing.

We're framing this in a certain way because it's easy for importance to the to this framing we're framing in this in a certain way because

it's it's easy for us to continue to talk about here's what to do next here's what to do next

here's some strategies we certainly coach our clients but this framing actually makes us take a

look at what not to do and what are some of the biggest mistakes we've seen from thousands of our clients.

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast where we help successful women attract high value men,

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship,

we're here to help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights

found nowhere else, backed by science, psychology, and our own personal experiences. Your host today

are myself, Adam Lodulche, professional dating coach and founder of Love Strategies, and Dr.

Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist, professor, and our head relationship coach here

at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy.

And the interesting thing is like, if you think about this in other terms like health,

if you're like, well, I want to lose weight.

Okay, great.

You know, you can think about, well, I need to eat well, I need to do all these things,

I need to exercise.

But an interesting question that might hit you from a different center center of your brain is, what would you do if you were really overweight? What would your

life look like? You'd like, well, I would drink a lot of alcohol. I would eat like crap. I would

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